Actually, yes, it does cause tension. It's not particularly bad, and since it's the only tension Lindiel and I ever have...
I don't often pick up on her clues, which isn't the problem, really. The problem is that I never initiate, because it never occurs to me. When it comes to "doing things for fun" sex is above nailing my feet to the floor, but below video games on the "occurring to me" list. Not that I don't enjoy it, and not that I don't find it to be a wholly emotionally (and otherwise) satisfying action, it's just that when I'm looking for things to do, my brain has a checklist of things to toss at me for review, and sex is near the bottom. Dunno why.
I find strip clubs to be pointless ventures. I hope to never find myself in one. In most circumstances, I don't find the female human body to be eye candy, probably due to therianthropy (not that I don't appreciate beauty). I'm lusting after raccoons, though.
True, that is the way I would form friends. I guess I just see more emotional significance in time spent with a mate than I find sex with a mate to be. Possibly due to outside influences and stereotypes that I wish to avoid. Sex to me, is furthering an emotional bond with the added fun of physical pleasure. If I hang out with Lindiel I'm furthering my emotional bond, and chicken cordon bleu pizza is on my top ten of best physical sensations. -shrugs- I'll have to think on this, and the differences between these situations.
Having a high sex drive is rather expected of males. A female might be disappointed if they ask for sex and you aren't utterly eager. I wouldn't say it's a bad thing.
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I don't often pick up on her clues, which isn't the problem, really. The problem is that I never initiate, because it never occurs to me. When it comes to "doing things for fun" sex is above nailing my feet to the floor, but below video games on the "occurring to me" list. Not that I don't enjoy it, and not that I don't find it to be a wholly emotionally (and otherwise) satisfying action, it's just that when I'm looking for things to do, my brain has a checklist of things to toss at me for review, and sex is near the bottom. Dunno why.
I find strip clubs to be pointless ventures. I hope to never find myself in one. In most circumstances, I don't find the female human body to be eye candy, probably due to therianthropy (not that I don't appreciate beauty). I'm lusting after raccoons, though.
True, that is the way I would form friends. I guess I just see more emotional significance in time spent with a mate than I find sex with a mate to be. Possibly due to outside influences and stereotypes that I wish to avoid. Sex to me, is furthering an emotional bond with the added fun of physical pleasure. If I hang out with Lindiel I'm furthering my emotional bond, and chicken cordon bleu pizza is on my top ten of best physical sensations. -shrugs- I'll have to think on this, and the differences between these situations.
Having a high sex drive is rather expected of males. A female might be disappointed if they ask for sex and you aren't utterly eager. I wouldn't say it's a bad thing.